in-creasing-order

I dont like to be told to do/ stop doing this or that. as a matter of fact most of us dont like...yeah??
wot iff some1 forces/ puts a pressure on us to do/ stop doing something??? I'll do it more if they ask me to stop doing it. because i hate to be told. I know why ppl ask me not to do. i'm empathetic. if ppl dont gimme time, i'll do it more.

i was told many a times to read books ....i hated to read for various reassons. but few ppl used to tell me more..ofcourse not pressurize, to read books. in neva touched a book then, coz i hated it. now no1 has told me, i got the intrest, i'm reading.

i'm being told not to have few bad habits. ppl know that i do it more if i'm asked not to, inspite of knowing it very clearly..ppl are telling me. wot does it mean...? hahahaha.....

recently i've stopped being empathetic with ppl who are not spl. earlier i was in a misconception that every1 is spl...n i used to b empethetic to ppl. now NO. my personal life is diff...it's rude n carries a lot of attitude. professionally i'm always  empathetic...children are always spl.