Children learn by imitation and adults unlearn by impressions. I've learnt this at many instances in this small journey called my life. there are really equal number of bitter memories n happiest ones. but the impact of the bitter ones dominate the happy n sweet memories.
have u ever heard of ABC?? ABC in psychology i mean. i dunno how many of my readers have psychology bkg..but every one should know abt it. ABC= Antecedent->Behavior->Consequence. i hope u got a rough pic from this flow diagram. The universal fact is that every behavior has an antecedent n consequence. there lies a great curiosity n importance to know the antecedents of any1s behavior (be it others/ 1s own). i just wonder how many of us look for antecedents of unfavorable or aversive behavior of ours/ other? there will be a great psychologist in every one of us whom v neva realize n use properly. a fraction of second all it takes to think before we act/ behave. 'our behavior not just reflects us..it creates an impression on others mind too'. many ignorant minds n rebellion attitudes just don't bother about any of these 2 above mentioned partners of behaviors. so as a consequence they end up with least number of happy memories n maximum number of enemies n bitter memories.
of late i've been watching this type of freaks. they neva know how they behave. wen told they cant digest. neither they realize nor they can accept suggestions / bare truths about them. frustration and its sister emotions called irritation n depressions become their ultimatum. pitiable souls / pathetic lives? wot to say? and they funniest part about these ppl is they talk n gossip about others behavior.
now why am i talking about all these crappy nuisance ppl..? it's because as i told in my earlier posts that there is a child in everyone of us...i fear ppl who watch them/live with them will also become so by imitating them unknowingly.sob sob.
another important point to be noted is impressions. everyone of use crave for being praised for our acheivements, hard work, efforts, ideas n so on. when u put all of these in ur work 100% n even more than this percent yet if your behavior is not satisfactory/appealing/convincing/pleasing. all the above mentioned +ve side of yours will directly be thrown in to a dustbin/ garbage. \m/kudos. wot say?
wish i find a poster of this type to do BM (behavior modification) for some 'mentally ill' adults. :P lol.
haa. enuf of psychology class n brainstorm. may be i couldn't explain it well here... but my psycho sir..as we call him with love, taught us this 'bare fact' in a fantabulous way. i just love it. hope u all had a happy weekend. have a nice week ahead.
gud luck n pls take care.
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