accept the unacceptable

life is simple and life runs....if n only if...we just
'accept the unacceptable'

Amen!!

close to my heart

close to my heart are few songs/albums/tracks. they soothe me like a balm for the pain, like a ray of light in dark, like a cool breeze on my forehead....i listen to these songs repeatedly without getting bored. it becomes some kind of meditation...

close to my heart are few ppl....(names not to be mentioned), they are attachments..like that of an umbilical cord, like a bon fire in the winter, rain drops on a crying face, wedding ring,.....i talk to them, listen to them, see them, sit quietly with them...they are my possessions n are my properties.

close to my heart are few clothes...they have some sentimental, sweet and emotional attachment. wearing them makes me feel like having thick skin, feel stronger, makes me feel closer to ppl i miss,
at times i wear few clothes repeatedly n unintentionally causing boredom to ppl

close to my heart are few movies...i watch them to see myself in some characters, to see my ppl in some other characters...it gives me fun and relief.

close to my heart are some objects. i keep them very close to me. they are reminders of friends, hard work, morals, hope etc..they are non living but they give me life everyday.

close to my heart are many feelings...they keep me up n down frequently, and very rarely stable..however they are..they define me in various ways. they are the key for success and/ or failure..not just for me but for many.

close to my heart are many moral stories told by my mum, that have reflected practically in my professional life and made me a successful person.


close to my heart are many posts in this blog....they are so nostalgic.
signing off for now....
sans

whattaaaaaa

for lyrics......

http://www.metrolyrics.com/single-ladies-lyrics-beyonce-knowles.html

bahe naina....bhare morey naina..(coz of Kareena's expressions)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=lHC1xPUgP5Q

for the same song Kareena performed at 57th filmfare awards...following is the video link. watch the video n observe her expressions only if u don't/cannot understand the lyrics...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2QszEeMoDk&feature=player_detailpage


she's got a very beautiful smile she should also be knowing wer to use it n wer not to..

Kyun na bole mo se mohan kyun
Hai roothe roothe mohan yun
Kaise manaaun haai kaise manaau

Kyun na bole mo se mohan kyun
Hai roothe roothe mohan kyun
Kaise manaaun haai kaise manaau

Un binn kate naa raina
Unn binn aawe na ik pal chaina
Unn bin jeeun tto kaise main jeeu'n haay..

Bahe naina Bhare morey Naina
Jhare morey naina
Mohe naina sune naahi kehna, bahe morey naina

Bahe naina Bhare morey Naina
Jhare morey naina
Mohe naina sune naahi kehna, bahe morey naina

When you go when you leave
Then you take a little piece of me with you
There's a hole in my soul
Cause you take a little piece of me with you (x2)

Haan Naino ke dwaare aane ke waade baandhe
Aise bolo kaaahe
Chokhat pe dil ki aahat rakhi hai taako pe hai torey saaye

Unn binn unhe manaye
Unn bin kabhi jo unko rijhaaye
Unn bin chhale hai mora ye jiya

Bahe naina Bhare morey Naina
Jhare morey naina
Mohe naina sune naahi kehna, bahe morey naina

Bahe naina Bhare morey Naina
Jhare morey naina
Mohe naina sune naahi kehna, bahe morey naina

Haan
Komal badi hai saansan ki dori
Roothe se bhi toot jaaye
Baawan tarah se jee ko manaaya
Khoje ajaunh tori raahe

Unn bin unhe main paaun
Unn bin unhe main garwa lagaaun
Unn bin unhe mora jee lage haay...

Bahe naina Bhare morey Naina
Jhare morey naina
Mohe naina sune naahi kehna, bahe morey naina

aunty ji aunty ji

wot happened to men? werever i go i'm listening stories about men spreading rumors and gossips. wen i sit with my frns for a gossip... i understand that men r getting in to gossips n eventually into troubles n getting labeled as 'aunty ji'. i used to hear abt few boys whom were like aunty's wen i was in school. i saw aunty boys wen i was in college. wen i was doing pg we had gals n aunty boys n no boys/ men. after college n during work..i have stopped listening about aunty boys...coz i was fed up to see n hear all around.
i got a gap for an year. it was in last year jan wen i got a shock that realized me ki bangalore is no exception for aunty boys. most of the men n boys are now aunties. very few are left out as men n boys as it is without a tagline.
it is very hard to find a man who doesn't gossip.
how to identify them non-aunty boys/ men....i can hint you...

1) they will be engrossed in work even on the weekends.

2) poor socialization n no time n no intrst for socialization.

3) men/boys who appear as jerks or nerds but or not actually so

4) who try to stop women/ girls from talking abt others

5) who try to divert the topic wen a girl tries to talk abt some1...

6) a person who never tries to express in words, his respect for women..

etc
watchout....i also gotcha identify aunty boys...
signs n symptoms can be...

1) sympathizes less n asks for more details n insists on giving specifying the details..wen something goes wrong with you n others..

2) always found on social networking sites n talk only about info that they get on those sites wen they meet you personally.

3) men who go to beauty saloons..get facials etc done...

4) men who wear gold jewellery...

5) men who have more than 3 good/best friends who are girls.

6) men who express in words  show over respect n formalities for women.

7) men who show intrst n patience in selecting items/clothes for them n for their girl/lady(/ies) :P.

8) men who seek sympathy n sulk for justice or sympathy itself.

9) who won't stop u from talking abt others

10) men who assume stories n tell the same about you to another girl...inspite of knowing that that girl n u r gossip frns/ u hae common frns.

11) weird cases: chupa rustums..in fb/gtalk/ blog. who comment anonymously etc

12) call u repeatedly to tell u abt some gal or boy till u answer n listen to it.

etc
warning: aunty boys are becoming a plague, they are increasing in alarming number..
 how to prevent?!
medicine is right in front of them say the following mantra n disappear...
'aunty ji aunty ji'
beware  n be prepared

'definations' are causing me 'irretation'

yeah u read it right..i wrote it wrong...

keep aside my students who have difficulty in fine tuning the speech sounds and other perceptual disorders...i'm sooooooo irritated n getting pissed off to see adults write 'definAtions'..!!!!
isn't it so annoying to see especially the techies and tech savvy ppl who can have spell checks right at hands... write 'a for i ' in the word definItion???  or is it that they so love the nation that dey write definition as definAtion.phew!!!!
 
for god sake those who don't know the spelling read it like this... finite---> definite---> definition.

other spelling is 'tomarow/tommaro/tommarrow'...............aargh!!!
read n learn it this way.. tom + or + row = tomorrow. 

table is read as table.. but the table in comfortable is not read as comfor+table...pls.
it is comfort+able (a sounds like the first letter of hindi/telugu swar 'a' n not the a of english alphabet.) to understand English language rules ..it takes a lifetime..but to understand the simple rules it harly takes few minutes.

zombic

a loud scream, not a dream;
spinning head, tumbling bed;
there's no light, time to fight;
make a call, or may fall;
this transition, is depression;
what to do, where to go;
whom to tell, going thru hell,
am going thru hell, am going thru hell;
it's not yell, but a spell;


zombie zombie zombie...
hey hey hey...
dou dou dou...