as i mentioned in one of my previous posts that 'a thing of beauty is a joy forever'... i see there are real admirers of beauty. i wonder how ppl admire beauty in every thing...living/ non living..kudos to 'em. on the other hand there are ppl who dont see beauty at all. they see only faults n mistakes in all things and ppl. they know only to criticize. i dont understand y ppl criticize so much. i just wonder if at all they know there is something called 'appreciation'. if they donot know / like to appreciate they have no rights to criticize! yeah?
i hate all those ppl who can't see goodness at all in any person....weras they can see any small mistake/ fault. this attitude or style of life i truly hate. huh....
ppl who admire..inspire me..but now wen i see ppl who criticize / who r just born to criticize...i'm afraid if they inspire me too...????
gaawd these crazy ppl really spoil me, my day n night. such ppl wen asked y d heck they bhave so.....wont b able to digest. these ppl seem to b having high levels of poisonous subs deposited all over their bodies..which is called 'super ego'. and some have 'complex' problems.
i really donot know how deal these ppl. i feel... it is far easy to deal my students..who are intellectually disabled. they dont have cognitive skills and have severe language and communication problems. yet i find it much easier to deal with such children.becoz they 'try' (i have lots of respect n faith in this word 'try', it really works, have u ever tried?:)) to understand what we are trying to explain them.
i feel shame to see and call myself as an normal individual, wen these ppl with 'super ego' also fall under the normal category. it is really sad.
according to me these ppl aren't normal, not my children.(now my students appear absolutely normal and easy). these ppl shd have spl doctors and trainers to deal with their ego and complex problems. the biggest problem is they dont suggestions becoz they are always on top of the world, they feel king size n hence they can only give but not take suggestions.
who can help them? i strongly feel that they need to be helped? but who can help them? if they are not corrected, becoz of 'em ppl around them get upset n badly effected. their attitudes are so. yeah, attitude is a lil thing dat makes a big difference! (i dint say, winston churchill said). what say?
these ppl need to b given serious and immediate concern..just like global warming. both r slow but dangerously happening!
the only thing is that they have to understand that 'their behavior, attitude and ego hurts!'
there is no point is discussing much abt a problem. there shd be a remedy for this.
what can b the remedy? Tit-for-taT??
i admit i dont have guts to face such nuts. n i dont feel sorry to call them nuts..becoz der's nothing wrong in calling ppl by their real names....\m/
suggest some remedies dear readers....
cya...n stay away from such poisons...n stay healthy.
sans
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The Buddha explained how to handle insult/ego/criticism and maintain compassion.
One day Buddha was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have no right teaching others," he shouted. "You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but a fake."
Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young man "Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it, to whom does the gift belong?"
The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, "It would belong to me, because I bought the gift."
The Buddha smiled and said, "That is correct. And it is exactly the same with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself."
"If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger and become loving instead. When you hate others, you yourself become unhappy. But when you love others, everyone is happy."
The young man listened closely to these wise words of the Buddha. "You are right, o Enlightened One, "he said. "Please teach me the path of love. I wish to become your follower."
The Buddha answered kindly, "Of course. I teach anyone who truly wants to learn. Come with me."
What is beauty?
What is admiration? Why do people admire beauty? How does one feel when he admires beauty? If you do not admire what feelings you are left with? Is it always necessary to admire beauty?
What is criticism? When do people criticize? What could be going on in their minds to do so?
What is appreciation? When should we appreciate? When should we not appreciate? Which things influence us to appreciate? Why we do not appreciate everything we come across?
What is being good? Can one be good to all and in every circumstance? Can anyone be so perfect?
What is hatred? Why do we get the feelings of hatred? Which factors is the cause of hatred? It is an intense feeling so how to get rid of/protect oneself from such intense and extreme feelings?
What is mistake? Why the same thing for one it seems as no mistake and for other it seems as mistake?
How should we Interpret Attitude?
What is inspiration? Why do we get inspired? When do we get inspired? How long the state of inspiration continues towards “that particular” thing?
What is behavior? How is it defined? Why it changes? Why can’t it be constant?
What is acceptance? Why don’t we accept everything we see we feel? What feelings are we left with when we accept and do not accept?
What is Ego/super ego? Can we get rid of the word ego? Can we separate ego with one’s identity?
When it is a problem? At what stage it grows from simple to complex? Which are the factors boosting this growth? What is the root cause of the problem?
There we get the cause: There we see the remedy.
well i dont have somthing tooooooo big 4 psting hare all i have is the feeling of being bound to say
AWESOME POST !!!!!!!!!
@priyanka: very well said. psychologists call it as 'extinction technique'. it's just a kind of ignoring and dusting off. it's gud1. thank u for u comment n remedial.
@anonymous: i suggest u better go google. google ur name as well. u'v lost ur identity. pity u. may god bless u.
@nitwit: thanku so much. :)
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